We live in the DC metro area. My fiancee is in LA right now for work. We’ve talked every day since I came home and she stayed out there for work, but we don’t usually talk in the middle of the day much because we’re both working. So when she calls in the middle of the day and I see her number on the caller ID I took pause for a second.
And the way she opened up the call didn’t exactly help. “I don’t know if you’ve heard yet, but I’m okay.” I don’t know a better way to start off a conversation about being fine in an earthquake, but I don’t like this one. Now I could be remembering this totally wrong, but that’s what I remember her saying; I could be way off. Obviously my first reaction is concern, and “what the hell are you talking about?”
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that she was talking about the earthquake, which I hadn’t heard about yet. Once she clued me in on what happened, my head was all confused. If I had heard about the quake before I talked to her, I’m sure I would have freaked. But since she told me she was okay before I knew about it, part of my head was thinking, “freak out, she was in an earthquake,” and the other part of my brain was thinking, “dude, chill out. She said she was fine and everything was okay.”
Part of the strangeness of the conversation was that earthquakes were always something that happened on TV, usually described by a news anchor. Living on the east coast all my life, I’ve never really been confronted with earthquake issues. My sister and her family lived in the Bay area for a while, but I don’t remember there being an earthquake of significance there while she was there.
Having my fiancee go through her first, is really, really messed up to think about, and yet it still doesn’t feel completely real…and I’m not sure why. I’m still really having trouble getting my head around it.
Bottom line is that I’m excedingly happy that she’s okay, and that it seems that there wasn’t any real damage of note to the city and no reports of people hurt last time I heard.
Posted by Erik
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